Stepping into the New Reality - Questions & Answers

January 14, 2009

  1. How will sex & sexual relationships shift in the new world we are creating?

  2. Could you explain more regarding what you mean by New Mexico being an "evacuation point" for you?

  3. You say that in terms of connecting to the Star Beings that …All of us have a muscle that can be developed with practice and with use, how does one develop this?

  4. How do we have fun? I am isolated and have not had fun for since I have been "in the light." 

  5. I feel that I am broken and will be left out of everything.

  6. Homeschooling even feels like an old system. What should I do?

  7. How can we have no responsibilties when we need to be responsible for our children?


1.  Dear Ms. Bishop, 

How will sex & sexual relationships shift in the new world we are creating? I feel that almost all my sexual experiences (& I’m a young, handsome man with a healthy appetite) have been fornication. Not in the judgemental biblical sense but just to satisfy our basic instinct as opposed to a true union of souls on multiple levels. This union, I feel, is the only sexual connection that has any fulfillment for me, in which 'intercourse' plays a minute role. How do you see sexual life evolving in the new reality? I know I'm not alone in my experience.

Warmth,

T.

Dear T,

Well….I suppose there is a lot to your question. Human beings need a connection to something, as connecting is what feels good to us. And most of us do not like being alone either. The more we evolve, the less sex we will desire. The energy that fills us during a sexual encounter can also be felt during an influx of energy on the planet, or even by opening fully to a higher vibration. The higher we vibrate, the more that we become very fulfilled with a deeper union involving great love, mutual respect, and the like. Human beings desire a closeness to one another…a sacred union. As we evolve more and enter a higher dimension, the boundaries dissipate to a large degree. In this way, we are closer whether we want to be or not! And in addition, we also begin to become much more connected to the whole, or our outer world, as we come to see and to become a part of one massive energy creation. The instincts you describe begin to slowly dissipate. So basically, I am saying that there will not be much sex as we evolve because we will not desire it as we will be fulfilled in new ways, but thank goodness we are not there yet!


2.  Hi! 

Could you explain more regarding what you mean by New Mexico being an "evacuation point" for you.  I am interested in what evacuation point means.

T. D.

Dear T. D.,

For the next three or four years, there will be much shifting and sorting occurring on the planet in regard to re-aligning to a higher way of being and living. Many areas will be affected, and thus, there will be a bit of chaos, disruption, unrest, and instability. Coastal areas will experience the most in regard to Earth changes, with a few other areas experiencing intense weather conditions and the like. Until things sort themselves out for the most part, there will be some areas that are more safe than others. Here in New Mexico where I currently reside, I am basically considered a “refugee” as I am a visitor here. This is not my area of resonance and I will only be here until an area in Arizona is ready for me, and then I will be there for the remainder of my days. In this way, we may be drawn to certain geographical areas on the planet, but these areas are not necessarily permanent places for us to reside. They may be temporary. My experience is not necessarily true for each and every one of us, but most certainly true for some of us.

My daughter has also been “evacuated” to a temporary place where she will be safe until she can move to her perfect spot on the planet. There are many pockets of energy on the planet that carry this vibration of protection and safety. And many of them are very small, residing among larger areas that do not share this vibration. Each and every one of us will be guided to where we need to be. There can be no accidents here, as we are always right where we need to be.


3.  Hello Karen, 

You say that in terms of connecting to the Star Beings that …

All of us have a muscle that can be developed with practice and with use, how does one develop this? I don’t want learn whole healing modalities as that doesn’t sit right any more but it would be useful to know how to do this for myself please.

You mention Having fun but I haven’t had fun for years almost as long as I have been in ‘the light’; most of my friends of old have disappeared, I have found it increasingly difficult to meet new ones, seem to be isolated and not seeing any joy/fun or love in life. 

Any thoughts would be welcome, 

Bless you,
B.

Dear B.,

The most important aspect in regard to connecting to the Star Beings is being very sure about whom you are actually connecting to. A true higher vibrating Star Being will usually wait to be asked, and in certain circumstances pop in and assist with an unsolicited warning or bit of advice. In every case, it is you who will be considered first.

If I am needing an opinion about something specific, I usually ask that a master with knowledge in this arena arrive for me, and I specifically ask that they be very evolved and of a higher order. Firstly, I feel their presence and then know that they have arrived, and then I focus more intently and can see and hear them. Each non-physical or Star Being has a very specific vibration and can thus easily be discerned or identified.

If you are new at this, as it sounds that you are, you may want to start with connecting to the angelic realm. The angels are so very loving and helpful. Each of us receives messages in a way that is specific to whom we are and how we can best connect. Writing can be a good way to start as well. I cannot really teach a class here on how to connect, as I was simply born this way and teaching this is not my purpose, but if you start by placing your intent out there, things should fall into place for you.

Another thing you might try is going out in a remote spot in nature. If you remain still, the nature spirits and other beings that inhabit that area will reveal themselves to you if they feel you are “safe.”  But you need to be still, quiet, and simply enjoy your time there while opening and allowing as you get out of the way.

The most important thing I would suggest to you, is that non-physicals usually arrive for us who carry our same vibration. If you are still working on clearing yourself and raising your vibration, as many of us are, you may attract a lower vibrating being. In this way, you might be best to start with the angelic realm. They are always available to all of us and vibrate very high. Ask that they give you a message in the best way for you to receive it, and then go from there. I know there are many wonderful individuals out there who teach these things in a much better way than I am doing here, so you might try doing an on-line search for a class or book.

In these times of massive transition and especially during the fall, it can be difficult to even be in the mood for having fun, but none-the-less, it is vitally important to at least have certain periods of time where we remember how to laugh, play, and let go.

If you have not had fun for years, perhaps you are taking spirituality too seriously, or perhaps you are simply tired and worn out. I remember several years ago when I was invited to a gathering for the harmonic concordance…a time of very powerful planetary alignments. The gathering entailed a meditation, some sharing, and an intent to observe the concordance. After a brief time, I had to leave. It did not feel remotely right to me. I then went to another gathering I had been invited to that was welcoming a group presenting their new cd. They sang, played, and it was wonderful fun! We all danced, laughed, and enjoyed some great music. Never was the concordance even mentioned.

As we evolve higher and higher, we come to know that spirituality does not need to be intentional. We are spiritual beings each and every day. We are here on the earth to simply live, enjoy, and experience (even though at this particular time we have a specific role of creating a New Earth as well!). Ceremonies and rituals eventually become moot, as do healings.

If your friends have disappeared, and this happens to many of us, you can still have fun none-the-less. I dance around the living room with my cat, and sing in the store all the time…all by myself. You can also become involved with groups that are having fun too, even though you may not have a lot in common with them. A hiking group, cycling group, tennis, card games, or even bowling. You need not necessarily become best friends with everyone, but you can at least have fun while you are all sharing the same connection to an activity.

Finding a way to connect with little ones really works for letting go and having fun. They are awesome beings that know how to be in the moment, play, laugh, and tell it like it is! Having fun places us in a different energetic space…we can see things more clearly and also connect to the way things were meant to be. It really lets us let go.


 

4.  Dear Karen,


My dear friend, S, and I feel that we are "broken" and will never be able to really live a real life in the world. We have "Processed" so much over the years thru yoga, meditation, therapy, diamond heart work, seminars, trainings, books, breathwork, etc. But we are aftaid we will be left out and never really be a part of anything. At other times, we think maybe we are some of the ones who volunteered to help out in extreme distress to make the transition easier for others...any thoughts?

S.

Dear S.,

Wow…I know how you must be feeling. I remember when I felt this way. I was sure that I had a shattered soul and that I would never be whole, even after much healing. But I will tell you what happened. The ascension process put me back together all by itself. It was when I quit processing and doing all that healing that things finally clicked. It is probably time for you to quit transmuting the lower energies. When 2009 began, many souls were done with that role, but many were done long before 2009 as well.

Try having a life now. Try just being you, doing what you enjoy, perhaps knowing that your old role of volunteering is now over. And you may need to do this in small pockets of energy, as so much of the whole is currently reeling from the fall. You will indeed be a part of something. You and your friend have each other and sound like you are in the same place. This is the beginning of your new community, if you so choose. It is most likely time for you to let go of the old, to begin a new life of joy and experiencing the earth, and to love and care about those in your space. You will eventually become more involved with others like you, and your community will grow. You are simply done with all the processing and healing, and now you can move on into a new and different reality.


 

5.  Hello Karen,

I was just wondering what the usefulness of the old 'systems' will be in our new reality and just how much we should be constricting ourselves trying to stay within them at this time?

I currently homeschool my son as staying within the 'system' was too much for both of us.

However, I often find that my responsibility for making sure he learns the 'requirements' can leave us both feeling uncomfortable and forced at times.

As you can see I am already quite outside of the system but still feel like we're residing in old energies due to having to document what is school and what isn't.

The days we are allowed to flow and he asks questions out of curiosity and when I answer them that takes us to learning even more are so wonderful!   I feel like he's learned more than he ever would have in a forced environment because he was hungry for the knowledge and soaking it up willingly.

Will we get back to the magic of learning without a 'system' soon? Will everything I 'document' even matter?

In gratitude,

A.D.

Dear A.D.,

“Old systems” are really just that…old. Most of them cannot be saved, nor should they. This is why “bailouts” will not work. We need things that are very new with very new energy.

You sound as if you have done what you could, by leaving the old as much as possible while still staying within what is required. Transitions can be tricky, as we are continually juggling a fine line. I know of individuals that felt that the income tax system here in the US was not right. Thus, they refused to pay taxes and ended up in jail. At times, it is better to accept that this is where we are, while we wait for things to change. In other situations, we can refuse to participate, and find a different way, while still remaining true to ourselves and not placing ourselves in jeopardy.

Twenty years ago, I homeschooled my daughter, and eventually placed her in a correspondence school that allowed her to take scuba diving, photography, and other things that fit who she was, to fulfill her requirements, while also eliminating much of the “filler” classes that many schools were providing. She then graduated very early and was able to get on with her life. This was the best we could do back then. I was a teacher in the public school system for a few years as well, and became very aware back then that the schools did not teach to the individual, as they could not.

Until things change very drastically, we still have to be in the system to a degree is some ways. The reason we are experiencing such a huge transition with the fall, is that things are now changing very quickly and very dramatically…and this is what we have wanted. Things will now begin changing more drastically.

You need to do what is right for you, and we are all different. Our educational system here in the US needs a massive overhaul. This is why homeschooling has skyrocketed and charter schools are becoming more and more prevalent.

Timelines for changes are impossible to predict, but generally speaking, they take much longer than we would ever like. Finding a program that fits within your comfort zone, and utilizing it to the best of your ability to fit your needs, is probably the best you can do while you are waiting for a massive change. Find one and make it work for you. Put out your desire that a good fit will arrive and more information about something you perhaps have not known about before will come into your awareness. Good luck!




6.  Hello Karen,

My first question is regarding the concept of responsibility.  You say that in the New World, we will no longer have responsibility.  We will simply share our gifts and experience joy when our gifts/talents are not being sought out.  I understand this in every area except in the care of children.  How can we have children and not have responsibility for them and their needs, at least until they are old enough to take responsibility for themselves?  I could envision a community raising the children, as in tribes of old or other close communities, but I would think there is still a significant amount of responsibility that a parent must take on to raise a child.  For example, I struggle with honoring my purpose and needs at times simply because a child cannot be ignored with a full diaper, the need to eat, etc.  I love nurturing my children, but the demands of their needs seems to require "responsibility" in most circumstances...especially at a young age.  Perhaps this is about finding balance with what we love, such as being a mother and offering our gifts?

Much love,
K.

Dear K.,

The first wavers came to the planet at this particular time because as they evolved and came to the spaces of less responsibility, their children would be grown. For others evolving with children, it is a different scenario. For instance, if you are one who has a six in their numerology chart, you have come to be a mother (among other things). In this way, changing diapers and such is part of your divine purpose and these individuals lovingly take on this role. Responsibility involves doing something because we “have to,” not necessarily because it is our passion and joy.

In higher vibrating realities, everyone simply does what is their passion to do. Each purpose regarding the care of children, would be fulfilled by someone who loves doing that particular thing. As we evolve higher, we become much more of a whole and are very aware of what is around us. We are very much united. More of the village raising a child. In the meantime, what are we supposed to do? I think that you have hit the nail on the head about “finding a balance with what we love, such as being a mother and offering our gifts.”

I was very much a teaching parent and a talking, listening and understanding parent. Those with the mother energy are more of a nurturing and taking care of needs parent. We are who we are, and this is what we have to offer our children until we evolve into the higher vibrating community lifestyle. We can still find others to become involves with our children who have special gifts as well, but overall, at this time, we are the ones who are ultimately responsible for our own children and we are not yet at a point that we see the whole and realize that we are not separate.




7.  Hi Karen,

You had indicated that at times we would be "invisible". I took that to mean when I was trying to set up a store-front in a place that really didn't want my services or wasn't ready or perhaps when socializing in a group of different energies.  However, the past several times while at the grocery store, there have been numerous incidences within only several minutes of each other, of people acting like I'm not there and pretty much "running me over".  I've found myself within a matter of minutes having to dodge, back up and scoot out the way multiple times. So much to the point that I found myself becoming a bit anxious.  Is this another way of being "invisible"?

A.

Dear A.,

Being invisible really fits in with what you have described in the first part of your question. In the second part, people can be running you over because they are in a hurry and stressed as well. I always drive the speed limit and people want to run me over all the time, and I know they see me because they give me obscene gestures! When we are existing in a different time/space of perhaps more ease and a slower movement, we do not really fit in with many others. In this way, there is not much of a connection or similar energy, and a clash can occur while in the same space. It does not sound like a matter of being invisible, but more like you are both there, but just existing a bit differently.

Two individuals sharing the same purpose of driving down the road or purchasing the same items in a store, places them in the same space of energetic alignment, and thus, the two would interact somehow because of the similar purpose, even though your vibrations might differ.



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